“It takes a hundred years to cultivate people,” this Vietnamese proverb is deeply ingrained in our minds, highlighting the importance of educating the younger generation. Yet, school bullying, a pressing issue, is infiltrating schools, sowing seeds of anxiety and suffering. What exactly is school bullying? And how can we effectively prevent this “rotten apple from spoiling the barrel”? This article will explore these questions together.
School Bullying: Definition and Reality
School bullying is any behavior that causes physical, mental, or emotional harm to students within the educational environment. From teasing and derogatory remarks to physical assault and harassment, all are considered school bullying. This issue is becoming increasingly prevalent and on the rise, causing concern for many parents, teachers, and students. Professor Nguyen Thi Thu Huong, an educational psychologist, in her book “Raising Children in the Digital Age,” emphasized: “School bullying not only affects the victims but also negatively impacts the perpetrators and the overall educational environment.”
Many mistakenly believe that school bullying is only physical fighting. However, in reality, it encompasses various forms, including emotional bullying (insults, threats, spreading rumors), relational bullying (isolation, ostracism), and even cyberbullying. “As you sow, so shall you reap,” bullying behaviors, whether big or small, leave immeasurable consequences.
Causes and Prevention of School Bullying
So, what are the causes of school bullying? Many factors contribute, from family and social environments to individual student characteristics. Some students become bullies due to a lack of attention and education from their families, influence from violent movies and games, or a desire to assert themselves.
However, “distant water cannot quench a fire nearby,” preventing school bullying requires the joint efforts of families, schools, and society. Here are some solutions:
Family:
- Spend time caring for and sharing with your children.
- Teach children how to behave properly and respect others.
- Limit children’s exposure to violent content.
School:
- Create a safe and friendly learning environment.
- Strictly handle cases of school bullying.
- Organize extracurricular activities to help students develop social skills.
Society:
- Raise awareness about school bullying.
- Develop programs to support victims and perpetrators of bullying.
Teacher Pham Van Toan, principal of Chu Van An High School in Hanoi, shared: “Educating about compassion, empathy, and responsibility is the key to preventing school bullying.”
The Story of “The Rotten Apple”
The story of An, a student bullied for his different appearance, caused a stir throughout the school. An was teased and isolated by his friends, causing him to become self-conscious and withdrawn. Fortunately, the homeroom teacher promptly noticed and helped An. She organized a class meeting, sharing about diversity and mutual respect. The classmates gradually realized their mistakes and apologized to An. This story shows that just a small action, a timely word, can change everything.
“One tree does not make a mountain, but three trees together make a high mountain.” Let’s join hands to build a safe and healthy school environment for our children. If you need advice or support, please contact Phone Number: 0372888889, or visit the address: 335 Nguyen Trai, Thanh Xuan, Hanoi. We have a 24/7 customer care team.
School bullying is a complex issue that requires the efforts of the entire community. Let’s act together today to protect the future of our children. Don’t hesitate to share this article and leave your comments below. You can also explore more articles about education and career guidance on the HỌC LÀM website.
