“To love means to die a little in the heart.” This verse by poet Xuân Diệu perhaps partially captures the fluttery, wistful, and slightly naive feeling when we fall for someone. But simply being in love is not enough; learning how to love someone completely and for the long term is a journey filled with emotional highs and lows.
You can find your true love even when you are not truly confident in yourself. Learning to let go of someone who doesn’t love you is also a way to open your heart to those who are more deserving. So how do you learn to love someone? Let’s explore the secrets of love with “HỌC LÀM” in the article below.
Learning to Love Someone: Starting with Self-Love
There’s a great saying: “To truly love someone, you must first learn to love yourself.” Indeed, when you respect yourself, understand your own worth, you can open your heart and give love most sincerely.
What is Self-Love?
Self-love is not selfishness, but when you know how to take care of yourself from the physical to the mental, know how to develop yourself every day and pursue the things you truly desire.
Why is Self-Love Important in Love?
Because when you are confident in yourself, you will attract others with the positive energy you radiate. You will no longer feel insecure, inferior, or afraid when entering a relationship. Instead, you will actively express yourself, building a healthy love based on mutual respect, understanding, and trust.
Secrets to Maintaining the Flame of Love
“Out of sight, out of mind” – Distance is always one of the biggest barriers in love. So how do you keep the flame of love burning brightly despite time and distance?
Always Keep the Romance Alive
Don’t let daily worries make you forget the romance in love. Always make time for each other, even if it’s just asking messages, short calls, or surprise dates.
Learn to Forgive and Be Tolerant
“Forgive and forget,” in love, there will inevitably be times when you and your partner have conflicts and arguments. At this time, learn to forgive and be tolerant of each other’s mistakes.
Build Trust
Trust is the solid foundation for all relationships, especially love. Always be honest with your partner, and share joys and sorrows in life together.
Learning to Love Someone: When Love “Breaks Down”
Every love will go through challenges. And not every couple can go all the way together. So when love breaks down, what should we do?
Accept the Truth
Sometimes, breaking up is the best way to liberate both of you. Instead of clinging to someone who no longer loves you, learn to accept the truth and move on strongly.
Find Yourself Again
After a breakup, take time for yourself, to heal your broken heart. You can return to personal hobbies, learn a new skill like learning how to cook delicious sweet soup, or simply spend time with family and friends.
Open Your Heart to New Opportunities
“Don’t close your heart,” always believe that somewhere out there, there is still a suitable person waiting for you.
Conclusion
Learning to love someone is a long process, requiring understanding, empathy, and tolerance from both sides. And above all, always believe in love, because “love is the only feeling that can make people happier than themselves.”
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